Stop Acting Rich ... And Start Living Like A Real Millionaire
Wiley (Published 2009)
Written By Thomas J Stanley
USA

Review 5 stars— Life Changing

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How the blurb describes the book:
The steep price we're paying for the credit crisis begs the question: what led so many Americans to spend so far beyond their means? Why did so many buy into the myth that hyper spending like the rich would somehow convey real wealth? In his most timely book to date, #1 New York Times bestselling author Thomas Stanley reveals the results of a major survey which uncovers the sharp differences between the spending habits of real millionaires versus those who are just "acting rich." It turns out that the big spenders aren't who we thought they were. The "aspiring rich" far outspend real millionaires, who rarely spend above their means regardless of the extent of their wealth. As a result, they've mortgaged their future on an illusion.

Stop Acting Rich exposes the huge gap between what we think "rich" looks like versus what it actually is. Dr. Stanley's research and the national survey carried out on his behalf by University of Georgia Survey Research Institute rips the lid off just about every assumption we have about who the really rich are (and aren't), what they do (and don't do) and what they buy (and don't buy).

For example:

• The #1 most popular make of car among millionaires is Toyota--not BMW or Mercedes

• Real millionaires pay about $16 (tip included) for a haircut at a traditional barber shop

• Nearly 4 in 10 millionaires surveyed buy wine that costs around $10

• There are currently more than 350,000 millionaire educators (working or retired teachers or professors)--a profession that is far better at transforming income into true wealth than doctors or lawyers

• Only 5.7 percent of all millionaires surveyed nationally paid $1,000 or more for their most recently acquired suit

• Sixty-four percent of all real millionaires have never owned a second house – not even a rustic log cabin in the woods

• The proportion of Americans who owned boats in 2006 exceeded the proportion who left an estate of $1 million or more in 2007 by a ratio of nearly 5 to 1

• In the U.S., there are nearly three times more millionaires living in homes that have a market value of under $300,000 than there are living in homes valued at $1 million or more

• The number one preferred brand of shoes worn by millionaire women is Nine West and their favourite clothing store is Ann Taylor--with the Gap and Costco not far behind

• Most real millionaires eschew Rolex, Omega and Tag Heuer timepieces in favour of Seiko watches

• Those who give away larger portions of their income to charitable causes end up accumulating more wealth.

In Stop Acting Rich, Dr. Stanley explores the profile, professions, and psychology of the typical status-and-brand-obsessed U.S. consumer. He uncovers who the most successful wealth accumulators are – not doctors and lawyers or business professionals, but educators, engineers and farmers. Funeral directors, for example, are better at accumulating wealth than doctors even though their income ranks well below doctors.

Stop Acting Rich makes clear the greatest cause of our financial woes: residence, but it's not only the price of our home, it is also where we live. Live in an upscale neighbourhood and you will spend more on everything from your car to your haircuts. Successful wealth accumulators understand that keeping up with the Joneses is a drain. Far better to live in a community where the neighbours' net worth is lower than theirs and Grey Goose is not on the menu.

By revealing the truths about what millionaires really spend their money on, and how the rest of us spend in an illusory attempt to emulate them, Dr. Stanley has written an important, must-read book that will transform the debate about America's hyper consumer culture, and show us all how to get on the right path toward attaining genuine, long-lasting wealth now and for the future.

Mr Home Budget's Review:
Thomas Stanley the author of Stop Acting Rich is indeed a gifted writer. His other works include The Millionaire Next Door and the Millionaire Women Next Door. And this book Stop Acting Rich once again hits the nail on the head.

The chapter which is the most important is "Everything you think about rich is wrong". This is where he uses facts, figures and survey results to prove and smash conventional thinking about rich people. In fact, a majority of millionaires do not even look rich. Yet there are thousands upon thousands of non-millionaires who go out of their way to look rich. And over the course of their lives, looking rich actually costs them greatly in total accumulative savings.

He gives examples of a behaviour pattern that real millionaires adopt which really saves them money over the course of their life. This includes:

Not purchasing homes in exclusive suburbs

Only buying second hand cars, which would not be considered luxury

Saving money where they can at the supermarket

Not using debt or credit cards

Being extremely frugal in all aspects of their lives

While people he calls aspirational rich (e.g. look rich but are not) follow a different yet strangely opposite pattern of habits:

Buying houses in exclusive neighbourhoods

Updating their cars regularly with new ones

Buying clothing brands which would be considered high end

Using credit cards and car loan debt to purchase items when there is a shortfall of cash

These aspirational rich believe they can purchase success. Instead of working for success they can buy items which in their mind a successful person would own, thus shortcutting their way to success. In fact these aspirational rich even purchase high end alcohol to display a status symbol at parties and get-togethers.

Thomas Stanley calls buying high end goods, icon displaying. A $10,000 watch is an icon. People who wear a watch like this are telling the world, "Hey look at me; I'm so successful I can afford an expensive watch". And while the world or strangers are probably impressed with the watch, it doesn't mean by any standard, that the person wearing it is really successful. In fact, they could have purchased it via a maxed out credit card. The book encourages you to stop buying the icons and start thinking about success and gaining wealth without displaying any icons to the outside world.

One part that I really enjoyed and which caught my eye: "Wealth isn't accumulated on an elaborate European vacation –it's accumulated by spending a summer vacation camping and visiting museums. Wealth isn't accumulated with a country club membership – it's accumulated with a walk in the park with that you want to be around. Wealth isn't accumulated from rich mahogany and many leather bound books – it's accumulated from a home you feel comfortable in and books you actually read, probably checked out from the library."

While this is only one of the books Stanley Thomas has written. It is 100% worth getting as you can't help but learn more about yourself, co-workers, family, friends and the world in general. Plus understand who is handicapping themselves from gaining real wealth.

Pros:
A brilliant book with a great message.
Just by adding a few things from the book into your life, you will be able to change for a much richer future.

Cons:
It is quite long.

Think and Grow Rich:thinkandgrowrich

Melvin Powers Wilshire Book Company, (Published 1937)

Written By Napoleon Hill

United States of America

REVIEW 5 Stars – LIFE CHANGING!

How the blurb describes the book:

Are you too busy working to spare any time for thinking? ... Then you’re two busy earning a living to make any money... until now!

Because the curious thing is, people who really make money – lots and lots of it – don’t work hard. Once they’ve set the ball rolling, wealth simply accumulates upon wealth.

The secret lies in moving that ball.

It’s a secret Napoleon Hill discovered when he interviewed 504 of America’s richest men – and its secret is so simple anyone, but anyone, can use it to become fabulously wealthy.

That secret is here, in the pages of this very book. Reprinted an amazing 42 times since its original publication, and sold out totally each time. It details the precise steps you can take to put yourself on easy street including:

-          Great dreams turn into great riches

-          Desire performs the impossible

-          Twenty eight very personal but revealing questions

-          The magic of “Money Consciousness”

-          You can use more brains than your own

-          There’s no such thing as bad luck

-          Fear is only a state of mind

These things together with the “Secret” formula provide a tried and tested plan that makes men rich. It will make YOU rich too!

Mr Home Budget’s Review:

It’s not every day you get a chance to read a book which was first printed nearly 75 years ago and was started by the author 20 years prior to its first printing. But a book which has sold over 7 million copies and been reprinted 42 times must have something to it? Well this book delivers good advice in spades.

 But don’t let the title fool you, this is not a home budgeting book. Nor will you learn how to save money at the supermarket; or how to start a property portfolio.

The author Napoleon Hill gets you to question what you are doing day to day. While he never says it anywhere in the book, he hints you might be walking in the wrong direction for success.

This book should know, because everyone who contributed to this book was not just successful, but extremely successful. For example, just two of the many contributers are Henry Ford (who founded the Ford motor company) and Thomas Edison (who invented the Light Bulb).

The book gets you to focus and build strengths including training your subconscious mind, teamwork, creative vision and how to stop and recognise failure. The book is humorous and uplifting. You can’t help thinking about your future.

One thing the book proves through stories over and over again, is successful people didn’t just get there overnight. They were not just born under a lucky star! It took years and years of failures to hit on the one true idea which helped them achieve their ultimate success.

There were many paragraphs I could point to as being good ones to read, however, this one stuck in my mind. “Before success comes in any man’s life, he is sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps, some failure. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and most logical thinking is to quit. That is exactly what the majority of men do.”

And this one also caught my eye, “We have in this country what is said to be the greatest public school system in the world. One of the strange things about human beings is that they value only that which has a price. The free schools of America, and the free public libraries, do not impress people because they are free.”

“Ten Trillion tiny servants – every cell in your brain – form patterns of thought, imagination and will. Your mind can gather in any amount of moneymaking knowledge.”

There are very few books which we give 5 out of 5 stars. In fact, as I write this, there has only been one other. In my mind, to give full marks to a book, it must be life changing. This book is LIFE CHANGING. As you are on my website, I will make the assumption you want help retaining and making more money. This book will get your brain thinking, not just along those lines but like a rhino stampeding towards this goal.

My only advice is to read this book. Buy it now!

Pros: The book is a real dive into history’s great leaders.

You can really see why it has sold so many copies. Very uplifting.

If you can’t reach for your budgeting goals after reading this book, then you have little hope.

Cons: As it was written such a long time ago, some words can be lost in translation.

How To Be Smart With Your Money

Orion Publishing Company, Published 2009

Written By Duncan Bannatyne

England

5 Stars = LIFE CHANGING!

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How the blurb describes the book:
It’s not what you’ve got, it’s what you do with it that counts, and today’s turbulent financial markets show just how important it is to be in control of your money. Star of Dragon’s Den Duncan Bannatyne knows more about money than most, having built a one billion business empire from scratch.

Being clever with your cash isn’t difficult and here Bannatyne reveals the secrets of how to make the most of your money by focussing on:
- Earning
- Spending
- Borrowing
- Investing
- Saving
- Budgeting

Whether you’re 18 or 80, Bannatyne’s no nonsense; jargon free advice will help you make choices, whether you just want more cash in your pocket or are looking to achieve financial security.

How to be smart with your money – the indispensable guide on how to make your money work harder for you.

Mr Home Budget’s Review:
So what can you learn about home budgeting from a billionaire. Surely anything they have to say could not relate to your life. But this book is not written on how to make a billion dollars or how to start and run a successful business. This book is about how to make your budget work. And if you have already checked out the star review, it does just that.

While the author, Duncan Bannatyne is now worth over one billion dollars. He wasn’t always so good with his money. In fact, until he hit 31, he was basically broke and had no idea about money management. So just like you and me, he had to learn about it one-step at a time.

The book holds your hand and takes you through how to set up a good family budget from start to finish. And while it is a UK written book for that audience, 95% of the ideas will translate into any country, regardless. The one thing which struck me over and over again was this was written by a billionaire. You constantly have to remind yourself of this fact whilst reading the book. As too often, the advice is the same as advice which could be given to you by your next-door neighbour.

Even now with a billion dollars to his name, he talks about little things which a lot of people wouldn’t do even with far less to their name. For example, he talks about buying a high-end camera for a holiday to Africa. After shopping around to get the best price, he decided to purchase a bunch of accessories (carry case, stand, and extra batteries) to go along with the purchase. But after being informed of a $16 fee to get the extra batteries delivered as they were out of stock, he backed out of the sale. He notes it was unfair to charge him extra money for delivery of a product that he was going to buy. As he notes, $16 is $16 no matter how much money you have.

One point he really tries to hammer home right throughout the book is just being smart and having a good paying job does not mean you’re good with money. In fact he has come across a lot of extremely smart people who have woeful budgeting skills. On the other side of the coin, there are many people who are blue-collar workers, who have their house paid off and cash in the bank. All because they know the secret to any good home budget, “you must not spend more than you earn.” In his opinion, there are a lot of people who openly admit they are not good with money. However, these people are just giving themselves an excuse not to have to think about budgeting. By always saying that they are not good with money, it allows them not to have to worry about it. Thus allowing them to continue spending when they want and on whatever they wanted. As he notes on page 55, “For every smart budgeter I know who calculates how much they need to put aside, I know another one who blows their money as soon as they earn it and are virtually penniless between paydays.”

This is one paragraph which really stood out: (Remember this is advice from a billionaire) “How many times in the past year have you had to deal with unexpected expenses? Maybe your roof leaked, your car broke down or your washing machine packed up. I think it’s pretty hard these days to go for a year without finding yourself shelling out for something you hadn’t budgeted for. Having a rainy day fund for these inevitable expenses will no longer cause you quite as much grief. And having the money handy means you won’t have to borrow to pay for your emergency, which means you won’t be paying unnecessary interest. In fact, you will be earning interest if you put your rainy day money into a savings account rather than a piggy bank.

Because the whole point of rainy day money is that you will need it at short notice, you’ll need to keep it in an instant access savings account. This means you won’t get the best rate of interest on it – you can get better rates if you are prepared to tie your savings up for a fixed period – but at least you won’t have any penalties to pay when you need to get at your money.”

And the following on page 87, sends a message on how to do a good budget: “For a couple of months – even just a couple of weeks would help – have a go at keeping a record of everything you spend money on. Not only will this help you see how quickly you’re eating into your monthly budget, but it will almost certainly reveal where your spending is under control and where you lose control. Most of us have a weak spot in our spending – computer games, betting, shoes, downloading music, cake, and keeping a record is the best way I know to identify the areas of your financial life where you throw caution to the wind.”

Overall you are doing yourself no favours by not reading this book. And it’s great to see that there are people with massive amounts of money who really have not forgotton where they came from.

Pros:
The book is written in such a simple manner; it really is quite addictive.
You can’t help but increase your bank balance, even by only using a handful of ideas.
Gives you a great insight into Duncan Bannatyne’s rise to success, including some of his harder times with money in his life.

Cons:
Because it’s written for a UK reader, sometimes the content may go over your head.

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